Successful Online Dating

Women give their heart to the wrong men, men whom have not earned it in anyway possible and probably really doesn’t even want it. He probably wanted something that is a little bit lower on your anatomy. However, since you’re already in love with him you’ve probably given him that too. Trust me when I tell you this ladies, when you give up that intimacy you’ve already lost and don’t even know it…        From Eavesdropping in the Boys Club

This is a great blog written from a man’s point of view – be sure to go read the rest of the article; you’ll enjoy it and learn something new.

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Ever gotten into a relationship that ended in a way you didn’t want it to, and find yourself wondering if you did something wrong? Well, wonder no more – here are some common mistakes women make with men. This isn’t a complete list, but it’s a good start to see how well you’ve been performing on the dating game.

Mistake #1: Loving him for the man he “almost” is.

Some women get into relationships with men and, no matter how undesirable some of his traits might be, hold fast to the relationship in hopes she could change him for the better.  Read more...

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After you’ve signed up with an online dating service, and you’ve started corresponding with and meeting guys, remember to keep your girlfriends close.

They are the ones that will help you keep your head on straight and your ass out of trouble. Trust me on this.

Mandi has been my main sounding board for guys. She is quite cynical and sees straight through the bs guys dish out (except, of course, in her own case – which is to be expected). She points out the glaring red flags I refuse to notice and picks up on the subtle stuff too. Her advice on how to handle situations is always spot-on.  Read more...

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So you have made it past the initial email contact, the instant messaging and the first phone call. You meet him for the first date and WOW! He’s a great guy. No red flags seem to be going off. Of course if this is happening, you want to make sure he knows you’re interested, but not come on too strong.

How do we strike the balance between bewitching enchantress and deranged stalker? Subtle flirting and non-verbal communication can be key to letting the man know he won’t be facing rejection if he asks you out again. Come on too strong, they run for the hills, not enough enthusiasm, they assume you aren’t interested. So here are a few insights to the art of flirtation.  Read more...

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True.com advertises that they check on and legally prosecute married people who sign up with their service. From their site:

Background screenings for felons and married people

If you’re married:
Married individuals who attempt to join TRUE.com are in direct violation of their agreement with TRUE.com. We will shut down the account of any member who’s discovered to be married – including those who are separated or have divorces pending. We report married people to the Internet Crime Complaint Center — the IC3 — which is a partnership between the FBI and the National White Collar Crime Center. We turn married people in for wire fraud under Title 18, Section 1343 of the U.S. Code.  Read more...

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