Archive for November, 2008

What Men Really Want (It Depends)

Kay on Nov 15th 2008 01:30 pm

what men really wantYou've been on two or three dates, and now the guy has great expectations of a night in bed with you, and he's making it obvious.

Does this mean he's interested in you and wants a relationship?

Women need to understand the clear answer to this is NO.

All it means is that he has has been somewhat patient and finds you attractive enough to have sex with you. Which isn't saying much, since my male friends all admit men are "dogs."

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Help With Understanding Men

Kay on Nov 13th 2008 05:32 am

I can attest that Christian Carter's email newsletters are informative and helpful. I downloaded his eBook, Catch Him and Keep Him, about a year ago, and was impressed with the advice and insight on men and dating relationships I got from it.

This is the last in our series featuring "10 Mistakes Women Make With Men." Mandi and I hope you've enjoyed it and have gained from reading it.

MISTAKE #10: Not Getting Help

This is the biggest mistake of all.

This mistake keeps women from EVER having the kind of success and finding the kind of man and relationship that they truly want.

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Do You Know What a Man Wants? #9

Kay on Nov 11th 2008 07:19 am

Men keep their cards close, and it can be hard to figure out what they want. From Christian Carter's book "10 Mistakes Women Make With Men."

MISTAKE #9: Not Knowing What To Do In Each Type Of Situation

A man has a clear idea of what he wants from a woman…

And I don't mean just sex.

I know, it might be hard to believe, but if you're out on a date with a man, he already has an idea of what he wants from you.

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Trying to Make a Man Love You - #8

Kay on Nov 10th 2008 07:16 am

Our series on "10 Mistakes Women Make With Men" from Christian Carter, author of "Catch Him and Keep Him" has been very popular. We have probably all been guilty of #8 at one time or another…

MISTAKE #8: Trying To “Convince” Him To Like You Or Love You

What do most women do when they meet a man that they REALLY like… but he's just not that interested or isn't as serious?

Right! They try to "convince" the man to feel differently.

Well, I have news for you…

YOU WILL NEVER CHANGE HOW A MAN "FEELS" WHEN IT COMES TO ATTRACTION!

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Mistake #7 - Expecting a Relationship to Make You Happy

Kay on Nov 8th 2008 07:08 am

mistake #7 This is a big one! A lot of women have this expectation, and it usually spells death to a relationship. Our series from Christian Carter's "10 Mistakes Women Make…"

Expecting a Relationship To Make You Happy

A mistake I've seen women make is thinking a guy will change her life and make her happy and fulfilled.

And sure, there are situations and relationships where this happens.

But those are the exceptions, not the rule.

Nothing says "Run!" to a man faster than hearing or sensing that a woman immediately wants him to take care of her.

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Mistake #6 - Judging Character

Kay on Nov 7th 2008 07:01 am

Do you think you have men figured out? Well, maybe you don't…men tend to be indirect and women often find men hard to understand. Continuing our series from Christian Carter's "10 Mistakes Women Make…"

Relying On Your Natural Ability To Judge A Man's Character

People aren't easy to figure out.

Especially men.

The last several years of my life I've spent hundreds of hours learning to understand people.

I've studied peoples behavior, "inner psychology" and more specifically how they think and act when they're dating.

From what I've seen, both men and women have their own secret ways of saying things.

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