Fools Rush In - #4
Kay on Nov 5th 2008 08:10 am
Sharing How You “Feel” Too Early
Christian Carter, author of Catch Him and Keep Him, explains that another huge and unfortunate mistake that most women make with men is sharing how they "feel" too early on.
Listen…
Attractive, single, successful men are rare.
They get a LOT of attention from women.
Most women don't realize this, but attractive men are being approached in one way or another all the time by women.
And guess what?
Attractive men have usually dated a lot of women.
That's right. They have EXPERIENCE.
They know what to expect.
And one thing that turns an attractive men off and sends him running away faster than just about anything…
It's a woman who starts saying "You know, I really, REALLY like you" after one or two dates.
This signals to the man that you're just like one of those "clingy" stereotype women who want to rush into a relationship and can't control yourself from wanting a man to fulfill them and complete their lives.
This does NOT spell ATTRACTION for a man.
Don't do it. Lean back. Relax.
There's a much better way…
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Finally something I'm not guilty of. This is one thing I don't do mainly because I'm very protective of my heart and also very suspicious of guys (they lie too much).
Another author on relationship advice, Margareth Kent, repeats the same in her book "How to marry a man of your dream": Women should learn to listen men before telling them anything about themselves.
Hey!
It's also a man who starts saying how they feel early on in dating;he wants to make you feel like you have found some wonderful guy. Lucky you if you have a good friend who can help you spot a control freak before you give up everything (they say love is blind). Don't state that women speak to early without warning about men that do;what's on their agenda?
Beware of men and women that seem to be from a fairy tale. You might be dating a frog!!!
@ImitationAngel - glad to hear your protect your heart
@Laneris - she's absolutely right. Men will reinvent themselves to be whatever they think a woman wants. Of course, women do that too.
@Sandra - I agree with you…been there, done that!