Successful Online Dating

Do you know how men think? Do you know how to catch the interest of a man?

Check out these tips from Steve Santagati, author of The Manual: A True Bad Boy Explains How Men Think, Date, and Mate

Looks Can Kill

Women don't want to hear this, but looks are important to guys - whether you like it or not guys are visual. This sounds trite, but when you leave the house to run errands, put on a cute t-shirt and a nice pair of jeans. Run a comb through your hair and add some lip gloss. You don't have to get all done-up, just better than thrown together.

This book is a favorite of mine.

The authors are psychologists and have worked with the police in establishing profiles of deviant personalities. They've come up with 25 different categories of "Loser," from the Abuser to the Wanderer, with checklists/quizzes for each type. They explain the goals and motives of the guys in these categories, and they don't allow you to explain away the red flags flapping in your face, like "Well, he's just acting like that because he's nervous." Nuh-uh girlfriend, just go down the checklist after a date and it's right there - hellooooo - he's a LOSER.