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Tonja Weimer writes the “Savvy Dating” newsletter and she just came out with her new book, Thriving After Divorce: Transforming Your Life When a Relationship Ends After you read her helpful tips below, you’ll want to go order her book from Amazon and learn more! |
A GUIDE TO BREAKUP RECOVERY
Do you know how men think? Do you know how to catch the interest of a man?
Check out these tips from Steve Santagati, author of The Manual: A True Bad Boy Explains How Men Think, Date, and Mate
Women don’t want to hear this, but looks are important to guys – whether you like it or not guys are visual. This sounds trite, but when you leave the house to run errands, put on a cute t-shirt and a nice pair of jeans. Run a comb through your hair and add some lip gloss. You don’t have to get all done-up, just better than thrown together.
This book is a favorite of mine.
The authors are psychologists and have worked with the police in establishing profiles of deviant personalities. They’ve come up with 25 different categories of “Loser,” from the Abuser to the Wanderer, with checklists/quizzes for each type. They explain the goals and motives of the guys in these categories, and they don’t allow you to explain away the red flags flapping in your face, like “Well, he’s just acting like that because he’s nervous.” Nuh-uh girlfriend, just go down the checklist after a date and it’s right there – hellooooo – he’s a LOSER.
. I have always been impressed with her writing and good advice, and I’m sure her book will be very helpful for anyone who has experienced a divorce and is still trying to recover.