Mistake #6 – Judging Character

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Do you think you have men figured out? Well, maybe you don’t…men tend to be indirect and women often find men hard to understand. Continuing our series from Christian Carter’s “10 Mistakes Women Make…”

Relying On Your Natural Ability To Judge A Man’s Character

People aren’t easy to figure out.

Especially men.

The last several years of my life I’ve spent hundreds of hours learning to understand people.

I’ve studied peoples behavior, “inner psychology” and more specifically how they think and act when they’re dating.

From what I’ve seen, both men and women have their own secret ways of saying things.

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10 Mistakes Women Make – #2

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Continuing our serious on mistakes women make with men and how you can avoid them – from Christian Carter, author of Catch Him and Keep Him.

Assuming You “Get” Men & Their Psychology

Men are different from women.

You need to accept this fact, and deal with it.

When a woman sees a man, she can very quickly pick apart certain things about his style, body language, status and character that will tell her all kinds of things about him.

Lots of women don’t even consciously see that they do this because the process is so obvious and simple for them.

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10 Mistakes Women Make

Catch Him & Keep HimChristian Carter has written an e-book about dating and relationships, Catch Him and Keep Him, that I downloaded a couple of years ago. I learned quite a lot from it and with permission, we’re disclosing some of his tips on dating and relationships between men and women. Some of it you may already know, but some of the information may be new to you.

Each one of these needs some thought, so we’re re-running this as a daily series for 10 days. Subscribe to our feed so you don’t miss one!

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Holiday Shopping for Your Date

gift for your date It’s very common for “Holiday Hookups” to happen this time of year. There are company holiday parties, friends parties, and of course New Years Eve.

However, as soon as you start dating someone, you do face the gift giving dilemma.

  • Do you get them a gift?
  • How much do you spend?
  • What if they don’t give you a gift back?
  • Will they feel pressured?

It’s enough to make your head hurt.

So much depends on several factors, too many variables for me to cover in one blog article. However, here are some things to ask yourself and some rules of thumb you can use to help ensure you don’t become a Grinch.

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Be True to Yourself

image One of the best things I’ve experienced since I got married (online dating success story right here!) is that for the first relationship in my life, I can be myself.

This is huge! So many women remake themselves for every man they meet, conforming to his expectations of what a girlfriend/lover/wife should be. I did that for years, whether single or married, and looking back, I realize that not only did I betray myself, but I also set myself up for bad/toxic/doomed relationships.

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