How to Find and Interest Men

Do you know how men think? Do you know how to catch the interest of a man?

Check out these tips from Steve Santagati, author of The Manual: A True Bad Boy Explains How Men Think, Date, and Mate
How to Find and Interest Men

Looks Can Kill

Women don’t want to hear this, but looks are important to guys – whether you like it or not guys are visual. This sounds trite, but when you leave the house to run errands, put on a cute t-shirt and a nice pair of jeans. Run a comb through your hair and add some lip gloss. You don’t have to get all done-up, just better than thrown together.

Flirting Is a Skill

Finding a man usually doesn’t just happen. Think of flirting as a skill – practice and get good at it.

Make a Move

A lot of men afraid are afraid to approach women for fear of rejection. Act interested and friendly. Make a comment or ask a question when you see an attractive man. If he’s interested, he’ll follow up.

Self Confidence Works

Say to yourself “I can have anyone in this room.” Fake it if you don’t feel it. It will change your entire demeanor and make you look more desirable to men.

Turn Off Your Cell Phone

If you’re constantly on your cell phone when you’re out in public, you’re not approachable.

Text Messaging Manners

Never a man ask you out with a text message. He should act like a gentleman and call you.

Go Where the Guys Are

And where are all the guys? Wherever there are sports. Go to the golf course and practice hitting balls. If you don’t know how there are bound to be several men who’d be more than happy to give you tips. Another place is at Home Depot or Lowe’s. Get yourself out of the paint department and over to lumber, screws, and hinges. (I don’t know why, it just is.)

How to Drive Men Away

3 surefire ways to drive a man off:

  1. Act desperate for kids. A woman who stares at baby carriages or makes comments makes guys run.
  2. Bitterness. Don’t bring your baggage along on your first date. Go on a date with a fresh start and open mind.
  3. Selfishness. Men appreciate a ‘Thank you’ when they buy you dinner or do something nice for you.
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2 Responses to “How to Find and Interest Men”

  1. Matt says:

    The point about men being afraid to approach women is very true. I think that there are a lot of very beautiful women who are lonely because men are just too nervous around them.

    They look at a woman like that and think, “She’s so beautiful. She must be way out of my league.” But in reality she’s not. She probably would have really appreciated the attention and any conversation that ensued.

    Quite often the only guy who will approach someone like that is super-confident, cocky, and a womaniser. Women get burned by guys like this and are more wary about responding to any male advances.

    Pretty sad when you think about it …

  2. Kay says:

    You are absolutely right, Matt. This is exactly what happens! The womanizers never have a problem approaching women. And we do get burned by them. Thanks for your comment!

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