Comments on: How to Know When a Man is Interested http://www.successfulonlinedating.com/how-to-know-when-a-man-is-interested/ Fri, 10 Jun 2011 02:13:04 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.2.1 By: Cc http://www.successfulonlinedating.com/how-to-know-when-a-man-is-interested/comment-page-1/#comment-7671 Cc Sat, 25 Sep 2010 23:04:54 +0000 http://www.successfulonlinedating.com/2008/05/19/how-to-know-when-a-man-is-interested/#comment-7671 Hi, this is really weird, but im confused and i need some help. I met this guy online, we dont live in the same country so its kinda hard to meet in person, we've started talking 3months ago, and we still are talking till this day. the 1st day, i added him to my like-list and he wrote me a msg a couple of hours later that day, saying hi and that he liked my profile and that my profile stood out etc. so we would email each other with like a 2days gap, mainly because I would wait a little before I would respond to his msgs. then he askd if i had a facebook account and that I should add him, so we could talk there.. and we have for 3 months and chatted too as often as possible.. but not longer than 1hour. b/c of our time differences. we do talk about how our days have been, what were going to do in the weekends, he asks about me, says thanks for sharing things with him, he asks me to pray for him and he prays for me. he tells me about his family and so on.. so we do talk.. but I dont know where we stand, that we dont really talk about on both parts.. and i dont like to ask that question.. and lately we havnt talked that much, but we do talk more or less with 24hrs-2days gap. he always asks me if im online and when i am he msgs me right away.. but we only talk for like 15-20mins.. and he's replies on mail are shorter now than before. and I think its b/c a couple of days ago, he said there was a phone line on the website we met, and maybe we should try it. and i said, maybe but its a bit weird with my family around since my family doesnt know i've been talking to you.. and he responded, he didnt know that my family didnt know.. and ever since then.. its been short/quick mgs and shorter chats than usual.. could it be b/c of what i said or maybe he is just bc this week? (cause he actually said he was bc) Im confused! I dont wanna rush things.. so its ok for me to take things slow. but I do wanna find out if its worth persueing.. and if he is interested in me for something more serious or just as an online friend? can someone pls help me? Hi, this is really weird, but im confused and i need some help.

I met this guy online, we dont live in the same country so its kinda hard to meet in person, we’ve started talking 3months ago, and we still are talking till this day. the 1st day, i added him to my like-list and he wrote me a msg a couple of hours later that day, saying hi and that he liked my profile and that my profile stood out etc. so we would email each other with like a 2days gap, mainly because I would wait a little before I would respond to his msgs. then he askd if i had a facebook account and that I should add him, so we could talk there.. and we have for 3 months and chatted too as often as possible.. but not longer than 1hour. b/c of our time differences. we do talk about how our days have been, what were going to do in the weekends, he asks about me, says thanks for sharing things with him, he asks me to pray for him and he prays for me. he tells me about his family and so on.. so we do talk.. but I dont know where we stand, that we dont really talk about on both parts.. and i dont like to ask that question.. and lately we havnt talked that much, but we do talk more or less with 24hrs-2days gap. he always asks me if im online and when i am he msgs me right away.. but we only talk for like 15-20mins.. and he’s replies on mail are shorter now than before. and I think its b/c a couple of days ago, he said there was a phone line on the website we met, and maybe we should try it. and i said, maybe but its a bit weird with my family around since my family doesnt know i’ve been talking to you.. and he responded, he didnt know that my family didnt know.. and ever since then.. its been short/quick mgs and shorter chats than usual.. could it be b/c of what i said or maybe he is just bc this week? (cause he actually said he was bc)
Im confused! I dont wanna rush things.. so its ok for me to take things slow. but I do wanna find out if its worth persueing.. and if he is interested in me for something more serious or just as an online friend? can someone pls help me?

]]> By: dazzled http://www.successfulonlinedating.com/how-to-know-when-a-man-is-interested/comment-page-1/#comment-2799 dazzled Thu, 04 Mar 2010 22:31:18 +0000 http://www.successfulonlinedating.com/2008/05/19/how-to-know-when-a-man-is-interested/#comment-2799 Hi Anastasia, do you mean the 2nd of March? That's 2 days, and you indicated that he doesn't respond immediately. So it sounds like this is within his range. If you meant February, then I'd write him off. One thing you said raised a red flag to me, though, about how he said other females "act strange around him." That is not a typical comment a guy will make. If you continue to communicate with him, try to expand on that and see what he means. You're already confused by him, and I have this very strong feeling you need to proceed with caution. I recommend you read the book Red Flags: How to Know When You're Dating a Loser. It will help you gain some insight on him...maybe he's just a geeky, shy guy, but then again, maybe you should move on. Good luck...let us know what happens :) Hi Anastasia, do you mean the 2nd of March? That’s 2 days, and you indicated that he doesn’t respond immediately. So it sounds like this is within his range. If you meant February, then I’d write him off.

One thing you said raised a red flag to me, though, about how he said other females “act strange around him.” That is not a typical comment a guy will make. If you continue to communicate with him, try to expand on that and see what he means. You’re already confused by him, and I have this very strong feeling you need to proceed with caution. I recommend you read the book Red Flags: How to Know When You’re Dating a Loser. It will help you gain some insight on him…maybe he’s just a geeky, shy guy, but then again, maybe you should move on.

Good luck…let us know what happens :)

]]> By: anastasia saenz http://www.successfulonlinedating.com/how-to-know-when-a-man-is-interested/comment-page-1/#comment-2798 anastasia saenz Thu, 04 Mar 2010 22:13:08 +0000 http://www.successfulonlinedating.com/2008/05/19/how-to-know-when-a-man-is-interested/#comment-2798 Hello from the Lone Star State. There's this guy I befriended from another place in Texas - a small town north of here, and I told him about myself (interests, a memory growing up, my TOP fear, my birthday, my name - of course, my account on the site). He replied to me 2 days later, telling me his interests, his interest in talking to me, how he was used to certain girls, like me (a city girl), how all his other female friends had a 'somebody', how the other females acted 'strange around him' and all. I saw that he's currently employed, he went to college for engineering and drafting. From then on, he and I e-mailed each other, ranging from 24 hours to a few days within. The last time I sent him an e-mail was on the 2nd of this month and I haven't gotten a reply from him. I don't know what to think or feel about him, anymore. His e-mails indicate his interest in me, his responses to my messages - nothing much about him, however. I'd really like some enlighment from you at your convenience. Thank you Hello from the Lone Star State.
There’s this guy I befriended from another place in Texas – a small town north of here, and I told him about myself (interests, a memory growing up, my TOP fear, my birthday, my name – of course, my account on the site). He replied to me 2 days later, telling me his interests, his interest in talking to me, how he was used to certain girls, like me (a city girl), how all his other female friends had a ‘somebody’, how the other females acted ‘strange around him’ and all. I saw that he’s currently employed, he went to college for engineering and drafting. From then on, he and I e-mailed each other, ranging from 24 hours to a few days within. The last time I sent him an e-mail was on the 2nd of this month and I haven’t gotten a reply from him. I don’t know what to think or feel about him, anymore. His e-mails indicate his interest in me, his responses to my messages – nothing much about him, however.
I’d really like some enlighment from you at your convenience.
Thank you

]]> By: mertley http://www.successfulonlinedating.com/how-to-know-when-a-man-is-interested/comment-page-1/#comment-2748 mertley Wed, 24 Feb 2010 22:19:09 +0000 http://www.successfulonlinedating.com/2008/05/19/how-to-know-when-a-man-is-interested/#comment-2748 Awww! thank you, you are absolutely right! I should take a stance! PS: funnily enough he txted me this afternoon, apologising and asking for another date. x Awww! thank you, you are absolutely right! I should take a stance!

PS: funnily enough he txted me this afternoon, apologising and asking for another date. x

]]> By: Kay http://www.successfulonlinedating.com/how-to-know-when-a-man-is-interested/comment-page-1/#comment-2734 Kay Wed, 24 Feb 2010 15:59:01 +0000 http://www.successfulonlinedating.com/2008/05/19/how-to-know-when-a-man-is-interested/#comment-2734 Hi Mertley, I love long posts like this, so don't apologize! Back in the day I would have been as confused as you are, and probably trying to figure out how to work this out. But now that I'm older, more experienced, and can take an objective step back, situations are much more clear to me. Forget about this guy. He doesn't know what he wants, except maybe the possibility of sex when he hasn't had a long day at the office. It sounds like he's attracted to you, but not enough to make a real effort at a relationship. I highly recommend you read the book He's Just Not That Into You and take it to heart. Put yourself on a pedestal, and make guys work for you, Mertley. You sound like a really nice young woman, and you deserve a guy who truly wants you and will make the effort to pursue you. There's a guy out there who will meet you, fall madly in love with you, and do everything he can to win your heart! Best of luck to you! Hi Mertley, I love long posts like this, so don’t apologize!

Back in the day I would have been as confused as you are, and probably trying to figure out how to work this out. But now that I’m older, more experienced, and can take an objective step back, situations are much more clear to me. Forget about this guy. He doesn’t know what he wants, except maybe the possibility of sex when he hasn’t had a long day at the office. It sounds like he’s attracted to you, but not enough to make a real effort at a relationship. I highly recommend you read the book He’s Just Not That Into You and take it to heart.

Put yourself on a pedestal, and make guys work for you, Mertley. You sound like a really nice young woman, and you deserve a guy who truly wants you and will make the effort to pursue you. There’s a guy out there who will meet you, fall madly in love with you, and do everything he can to win your heart! Best of luck to you!

]]>