Huge List of Red Flags!

I  found an absolutely huge list of red flags for both men and women – would you believe 156 of them! You can read red flagsthem all at Heartless Bitches International.

Some of them are kind of funny (and sad if you don’t see them as red flags). Others I haven’t thought of or encountered. Almost every one of them is an article in itself. Interesting ones include:

  • You have to keep proving yourself worthy of his attention or love. You get attention withdrawn if you ask for responsible behavior or in any way indicate that you were not happy with something he did.
  • He’s seeing someone else (and he is intimate with them) and he falls for you. It may seem very flattering, but he’ll only do the same thing to you later. It’s a sick pattern and it ISN’T going to stop with YOU.
  • He tells you all the ways you are alike and seems to find more similarities with each passing day – he’s setting you up. He’s “mirroring” you to be more attractive. It’s another abuser/controller pattern.

And one of my favorites:

If you ever once, just for one second, see a frightening, mad, staring-eyed look on his face that isn’t the result of something at least as horrifying as him having just been bitten by a venomous snake (i.e if you’ve just suggested you both visit some friends of yours) then no matter how fleeting it was or how deeply you think you care for him, either run for the hills or change the locks (depending on whose house it is). Ignore this one and it could cost you your life.

Written by dazzled

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3 Responses to “Huge List of Red Flags!”

  1. Mandi says:

    Kay, these are great! I just finished reading them…and OH BOY! You are right, there are some out there I never even thought of….

  2. oh crap

    i’ve done a couple of those…

    that anger one is DEAD right fyi

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