Mistake #7 – Expecting a Relationship to Make You Happy

Catch Him & Keep Him This is a big one! A lot of women have this expectation, and it usually spells death to a relationship. Our series from Christian Carter’s “10 Mistakes Women Make…”

Expecting a Relationship To Make You Happy

A mistake I’ve seen women make is thinking a guy will change her life and make her happy and fulfilled.

And sure, there are situations and relationships where this happens.

But those are the exceptions, not the rule.

Nothing says “Run!” to a man faster than hearing or sensing that a woman immediately wants him to take care of her.

And the men who ARE looking for this kind of situation aren’t exactly the most healthy, loving, nurturing people out there.

Think, “controlling, macho, or serious Mom Issues!”

So let me be clear…

I think it’s important that people help fulfill each other in their lives, whether it’s dating, a relationship, whatever.

Don’t Send Out the Wrong Signals

But if a woman communicates that she’s looking for a guy to take care of her, complete her, make her whole, and all that kind of stuff – it has a VERY negative effect on what the man will think of her.

It doesn’t have to be spoken by the woman either…

If a woman thinks or feels this way, the man will see it and pick up on it, regardless.

This is arguably the worst thing a woman can do early on when dating a man.

So What Can a Woman Do?

You can get the man interested and involved in your life in a more “natural” way, where he’ll be motivated to care about your happiness and fulfillment on his own.

This is the only way it really works for people – male or female.

Self-motivation is much stronger than external motivation.

But you have to know how to create this situation with a man… and it rarely happens by accident.

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  2. That is definitely a big mistake and I’ve seen people make it many times.

  3. showers says:

    This blog brings back some memories from years ago. Great work keep it up!

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