Successful Online Dating

Here’s another of our guest posts – this one from a guy who is self-described nerd.

When I was a small boy, cute and pretty girls surrounded me but once I became a teenager that ended.  In high school, when all young people could have gone to dates and proms and had a boyfriend or girlfriend, I was  constantly buried with my books and scientific experiments in the lab.  During my University years, I was a regular visitor of the library as I thoroughly did research for projects and tons of paper works.  As soon as I graduated, I was in a dash to find a job and when I found one I was what they call a non-stop working machine.  Put simply, I’m your typical nerdy type of guy who had no knowledge in dating somebody and never had a girlfriend his whole thirty-something years.  Read more...

Tags: dating advice, dating tips for guys, nerds

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Christian Carter, author of Catch Him and Keep Him, explains that another huge and unfortunate mistake that most women make with men is sharing how they “feel” too early on.

Listen…

Attractive, single, successful men are rare.

They get a LOT of attention from women.

Most women don’t realize this, but attractive men are being approached in one way or another all the time by women.

And guess what?

Attractive men have usually dated a lot of women.

That’s right. They have EXPERIENCE.

They know what to expect.

10 Secrets About Men  Read more...

Tags: dating advice, online dating, Relationships

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Do you feel like you have to do things to make a guy like you? From Christian Carter, author of Catch Him and Keep Him – read on…

Pretending To Be Something For A Man

In the desire to please a man, women are constantly doing things to get a man’s attention, to get him to like them or to make him more attracted or in love with them.

Another HORRIBLE idea.

Lots of women mistakenly think that doing unusual things to try and get a guys attention will make him magically see what a great catch they are and want to be with them.  Read more...

Tags: dating, dating advice, how to understand men, Relationships, understanding men

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By now, you know that I prefer that first dates be kept short, simple and flexible. This allows you to fairly easily and painlessly escape a date that is not going well, while leaving plenty of room to continue on if everything is moving in the right direction.

So what should you do on a first date?

Remember that the ability to have a conversation is key.

You aren’t on a date with a restaurant or movie theater, you probably already know if you like Italian food or Action Adventure movies. You are there to get to know the other person.  Read more...

Tags: dating advice, dating tips, first date, relationship advice, what to talk about

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First, yeah, I know this site is Successful ONLINE Dating, but occasionally I get out from behind the computer.

So, why do the cheesy pick up lines never work? Well, they are cheesy and we’ve all heard them before. However, we all know someone that’s met someone in a bar.

So, what’s the secret? Why do some guys (and girls) get the digits and others get rejected? I’ve found that there are 3 major components to approaches that work in person.

Clean  Read more...

Tags: dating, dating advice, pickup lines, successful pickup lines

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