Successful Online Dating

By now, you know that I prefer that first dates be kept short, simple and flexible. This allows you to fairly easily and painlessly escape a date that is not going well, while leaving plenty of room to continue on if everything is moving in the right direction.

So what should you do on a first date?

Remember that the ability to have a conversation is key.

You aren’t on a date with a restaurant or movie theater, you probably already know if you like Italian food or Action Adventure movies. You are there to get to know the other person.  Read more...

Tags: dating advice, dating tips, first date, relationship advice, what to talk about

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During the first few dates, it’s often a little nerve wracking trying to figure out just where you stand.

Act too interested, you scare the other person away, act too aloof and you hurt their feelings.

So how can you find out if the other person is interested without asking outright? While there’s nothing wrong with open communication, sometimes a little reassurance is a good thing.

Here are a few of the non-verbal cues that can tell you how your date, man or woman feels about you:  Read more...

Tags: body language, dating advice, dating tips, first date, flirting, how to interest a man, is he attracted, is he interested, mirroring

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I’ve written before about conversation starters for first dates (see What the Heck Do We Talk About?) but it seems to be something that EVERYONE has trouble with. So here are a few more questions to get the conversation rolling on your first date. Or, if you are using an online dating service, use these during your IM or phone conversations.

The trick is to ask probing, open ended questions. Ask questions that can’t be answered with a quick “Yes” or “No.” It’s also important to ask questions that will touch on subjects that are important to you. Only by really asking and actively listening to the responses will you learn enough about the other person to determine if there is real potential in the relationship.  Read more...

Tags: first date, what to talk about, what to talk about on a first date

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