Your thoughts and words are more powerful than you know. Most of the time we do not pay much attention our thoughts and to the words we choose to use. Often this means our choices are being made either by habit or by fear, particularly when it comes to what we say and do in our relationships.
This is a big one! A lot of women have this expectation, and it usually spells death to a relationship. Our series from Christian Carter’s “10 Mistakes Women Make…”
A mistake I’ve seen women make is thinking a guy will change her life and make her happy and fulfilled.
And sure, there are situations and relationships where this happens.
But those are the exceptions, not the rule.
Nothing says “Run!” to a man faster than hearing or sensing that a woman immediately wants him to take care of her.
Christian Carter has written an e-book about dating and relationships, Catch Him and Keep Him, that I downloaded a couple of years ago. I learned quite a lot from it and with permission, we’re disclosing some of his tips on dating and relationships between men and women. Some of it you may already know, but some of the information may be new to you.
Each one of these needs some thought, so we’re re-running this as a daily series for 10 days. Subscribe to our feed so you don’t miss one!
By now, you know that I prefer that first dates be kept short, simple and flexible. This allows you to fairly easily and painlessly escape a date that is not going well, while leaving plenty of room to continue on if everything is moving in the right direction.
So what should you do on a first date?
Remember that the ability to have a conversation is key.
You aren’t on a date with a restaurant or movie theater, you probably already know if you like Italian food or Action Adventure movies. You are there to get to know the other person.
You’ve been on two or three dates, and now the guy has great expectations of a night in bed with you, and he’s making it obvious.
Does this mean he’s interested in you and wants a relationship?
Women need to understand the clear answer to this is NO.
All it means is that he has has been somewhat patient and finds you attractive enough to have sex with you. Which isn’t saying much, since my male friends all admit men are “dogs.”